It’s been a long week, I’m in one of those moods where i feel like getting high for the 1st time and end up not giving a fuck.
Anyway today’s blog ain’t about menez. It’s about any person in TUM with a dick.
Most of my blogs come from what I’m going through or what my friends are going through. What my friends go through give me some really great blog ideas and today’s blog is going to be interesting. Most of you will relate to it (ladies) guys will just get offended.
We are in campus right and I’m sure if you are a dude you have probably heard a girl say ” I can’t date guys in my university ” and if you are a girl you have probably said or will say ” You can’t date guys in your university, you can’t date someone from your class”
[2/9, 15:44] : Nop anyone but not in tum especially 2nd year
[2/10, 12:26] : Sio ivyo but siwezi date wasee wengi from one place
[2/10, 12:36] : That’s why nakuambia siwezi date another dude from tum
[2/10, 12:36] : Especially 2nd year
Countless chiqs have said they can’t date guys from my university. If you wondering I’m in TUM (Technical University of Mombasa) I can write an endless list of girls who have vowed they are done with TUM guys. I usually wonder where we went wrong.
For those dating a TUM guy they all say when the relationship comes to an end they are done with TUM niggas. Chances are 90% of them will end up dating a working class dude or find themselves in situationships just because they stupidly decided to quit on university dudes na vile we give you attention.
Whether you are in TUM, UoN, KU, TUK, Maseno, Jkuat or any other university. This is something all of us are facing. But i think in my uni the situation is worse.
I’m in a university where with a little bit of digging you can find out about anyone in a matter of minutes. You can find his or her campus life. If you good you can know his or her fucking sex history. In TUM we are all interconnected. Your ex is my ex, my crush is your gf, your friend is fucking my friend, your ex dated my friend so in one way or another we are connected. In short relationships are what made most guys in my uni get to know each other.
For us guys it’s quite easy to find out about a certain chiq. All we have to do is go to our bros and ask “unajua nanii? ”
After asking you will get answers like “eeeh namjua, anadate boy flani, alikua anadate yule boy, ” so in a matter of minutes you have been told all the dirt about her. After that you choose whether or not to still chase her.
Lemme tell you some of the reasons i was given by numerous ladies for not dating a guy in TUM.
REASONS WHY THEY CAN’T DATE A TUM GUY.
1. THEY ARE ALL FUCKBOYS
99% of all girls in my uni will agree with that statement. They all think we are all fuckboys. Whether you are or you not it doesn’t matter because in her mind everyone is a fuckboy. So start accepting and try to prove her wrong. some will say we are players, cheaters etc.
In their minds the actions of one guy represent the entire tum male society. So if she met a fuckboy and got heartbroken she will always think the rest of you are fuckboys. But don’t blame fuckboys for everything, partially it’s your fault. You clearly have heard he is a fuckboy but end up falling for him then blaming every dude for your bad choices.
2. SOME ARE IMMATURE.
I don’t know how you chiqs define maturity but to everyone it’s different. Some think maturity is how old you are thus tend to date guys above 24yrs old. To me any dude above 24 is old. Some girls said guys in our uni only think of smoking weed and getting drunk mon-sun.
We got no future and we can’t add anything of value to their lives. So they just avoid anyone who is from TUM. You may have all the qualities she wants in a man but just because you in the same university with her she won’t date you.
3. 40% of them got AIDS.
I will only agree with this statement once there is some hard facts to back it up. Personally i know no one with AIDS. all i heard was that there is this chiq who never misses any party who is going around fucking anyone spreading the disease. N/B these are just rumors don’t take them seriously. If it’s true then we in for some deep shiet.
4. THEY ARE BROKE
Those who said we are broke argued that we are too stingy to spend money on them. We are not stingy we are selectively spending. There was a time taking a girl out on tue for pizza and then going back home with her would get you easy pussy but nowadays you may take her out for pizza for an entire month and even don’t get a simple kiss.
[2/25, 14:04] : There is no point in me dating a tum dude. He got no money. Better i date a working class dude. Hapo I’m sure afta several sexing i will be getting some money. Like last weekend i was given 8k to fix my hair. Something no tum nigga can ever do.
There are some who want a life that we can’t provide, if they can’t understand we are students then they are better off without us.
[2/25, 12:07] : 😂 they’re either fuck boys…. Have a string of exes or carry a nasty history with them
[2/25, 12:17] : 😂 😴😴😴 some don’t hit on you coz they like you…but to prove a point that they can have you🚮
[2/25, 12:18] : Then there is agreement between friends or is it bros to hit on a certain girl 😂😂 for the pussy obviously 🚮
[2/25, 12:28] : 😴😴😴 Then y’all after a good time so you easily get bored 😂😂😂 na Hakuna relationships 😴😴😴 just a string of short term meaningless flings
[2/26, 15:26] : Heri niwaste time solo 😂😂n I’ll never regret
[2/26, 15:26] : Sasa kijana aniwastie time alafu badae niachwe 😂🚮
THEY DON’T WANT TO DATE BECAUSE OF SUCH TEXTS
look at this conversation, i changed their names
[2/8, 08:16] him: Morning cute thing 😍
[2/8, 08:36] her🖤: Morning
[2/8, 08:41] him: Oooh I dreamt you are a fruit and you were a fine apple, later you became a vegetable and you were a cutecumber 😍😍thought you should know
[2/8, 08:55] her 🖤: 😅🤦🏼♀okay
[2/8, 09:05] him: I love you, you never know ❤
[2/8, 09:16] her 🖤: You better stop
[2/8, 09:28] him: Rejection can lead to emotional stress to both parties involved and emotional stress can lead to physical complications such as headaches, ulcers, cancerous tumors and even death
So for my health and yours
JUST SAY YES❤ 😂
[2/8, 09:29] him: Not so soon
Actually never stopping
[2/8, 09:34] her 🖤: 😏am very much okay
[2/8, 09:36] him: Don’t be that hard to love 😉
[2/8, 09:40] her🖤: 🤦🏼♀🤦🏼♀🤦🏼♀
[2/8, 09:41] her: Or just be hard
I can’t afford to give up on you
[2/8, 09:43] him: When am low, I check your dp… I feel so high 😍
[2/8, 09:43] him: So don’t change it 🙏🏾🙏🏾
😂😂😂🤦🏼♀🤦🏼♀🤦🏼♀the kind of people I have in my inbox
This dude couldn’t get the hint the lady had no interest in him at all. He kept on foolishly pushing and nagging.
[2/25, 13:02] I can’t date a guy from TUM because my ex knows all the guys. I want a new man, a new dick no TUM chiq has been fucked with. Something totally new.
[2/25, 13:02] Someone greats you the first time asks for your no. and then whoosh they are all in love all over you want you to act like you dating asking where you are all the time and wanting you to give them attention 😓 and it’s annoying
The reasons are so many. Some say we suck at approaching girls, maintaining her interest, we are just after sex, to us dating is a game, we are too clingy, perverts, stalkers etc.
Some of their complains are true but we have to reconsider somethings.
We have to admit that we guys somehow failed in one way or another. For a chiq to fully lose hope on dating a guy from the same university is a big deal. Our small actions have an impact on how a certain girl will deal with the rest of the guys who will chase her.
Sometimes NO means NO not a delayed yes. If a girls doesn’t want what you suggesting let it go. don’t nag her all the time. Don’t check up on a girl all the time. At some point it becomes annoying. Let her be, if she wants you she will find you. Here is a simple rule don’t force anything observe how someone behaves with you. If the vibes ain’t positive just pack your stuff and go.
If you going to approach a girl do it perfectly in a way after the girl leaves she doesn’t go complaining to her roomie. If you going to take a girl out treat her well, make the conversation lively, if you are going to be a fuckboy atleast be good at fucking; her experience with you should be so good that she goes back to her friends and praise your dickgame. Remember the fate of most guys is in your hands. So if you mess up, you have messed it up for all of us.
For a girl whether to date or not to date is optional. She can choose when to date but after seeing the shiet we men do some just choose to be single. They have seen their friends dating single men, getting played, cheated on. So they just choose not to date. They better stay single than date a boy who will go dicking around while still with her.
Girls, we accept there are some people with some questionable characters but there are also some good guys. In TUM we have like 7000 guys. I assume most girls know less than 100 TUM guys. The 100 you know shouldn’t affect the fate of the rest. They may be bad, weird, creepy but someone out there in the same university is everything that you ever wanted.
Even if you date an outsider there is no big difference. Guys are all the same. Unless your man is from mars then you can say outsiders are different. Better the devil you know than an angel you don’t know.
Anyway who you date or why you date is your choice. As long as you happy with your current situation then everything is cool and if you ain’t happy you can pack your things and go. Don’t be influenced by your friends on who to date.
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Hi! I’m Dennis Menez; Chief Blogger at Menez.co.ke . Blogging since 1901; I love curating photos + writing about things that irk or inspire me. I love long days in the house and interacting with crazy people.
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