The Perfect Threesome

The threesome has been the ultimate goal for most men since earth came into existence. Most men have had plenty of sex but not all have had threesomes. This is a fantasy for all men its in every man’s bucketlist. It’s also in our bucketlist list to see some girl on girl action😋😜

If you don’t believe me ask any normal guy and if they say they have never dreamt of a threesome that nigga is gay😂. Not many women can agree to a threesome.

But honestly, it’s hard enough getting ONE person into bed and figuring out their turn ons and turn offs, what positions work for your bodies, and how to truly make the sex lit. Now imagine adding another person may seem like madness- and frankly, it can be complicated.

Threesomes are not for every Brenda, Caro, Shiro or Mercy out there. If your girlfriend is the reserved type of woman who dreads experimenting tam tam things in bed, she probably won’t feel comfortable with the idea of bringing another hot chic into your bedroom.

The number one thing that most girlfriends fear most about threesomes is that the boyfriend may end up loving the new pussy more than his current pussy. This fear is true. We men, we are wired to always want the new.

Put a hot woman that your girlfriend brings over in front of you, and no matter what the boundaries are — whether it’s no penetration or not — and you are going to spend more time on the friend (because she is the “new one”). You’ve already had the old one plenty of times. That toy is getting old for you now.

A threesome always sounds better on paper than in reality. To us guys its me, you and another girl. That’s one heck of an experience. To women its you, your boyfriend and another girl that will be enjoying your boyfriend’s dick. I don’t think there is any chiq in her right mind that would want to have a threesome with two guys. If there is then she got guts.

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Here is a tip you should know incase you meet a woman or man crazy enough to make you consider about having a threesome.

Guy picks Guy, Girl picks Girl.

If it’s a threesome involving two chiqs the girl should invite the other girl. The girls, pretty much under every imaginable circumstance, have to get on as friends at LEAST. And these two should have a sexual tension between the two regardless if the boy is there or not.

I will be honest- I have not heard of a threesome involving a couple where the guy picked the girl, the two girls focused on the guy, and this didn’t end in pain and tears. It is drama city, believe me. It works out much better if the two girls go at it and the boy sits on the sidelines some of the time.

I don’t think it’s possible for two girls in a threesome to spend the whole time without getting intimate. The hardest part in the idea of a threesome is to find people crazy enough to try it with. If you are lucky to find them then you will have one hell of a good time.

What people fail to talk about when it comes to a threesome is the emotional repercussions that occur the day after a threesome. Welcome to a really tough time in your adult adolescence.

Threesomes in the real world are very emotionally confusing, especially if you get so turned on that you can’t keep your hands off the friend (and end up ignoring your girlfriend or boyfriend). That shit does happen.

There are three types of threesomes

GGB – two girls one boy

BBG – two boys one girl

GGG – three girls. This is for the bisexuals or lesbians. If you’re lucky enough to know 2 girls who enjoy group play casually, then this can be a blast.

If you are a dude and you girl has agreed to the idea of a threesome here are something 3 things you should do.

1. Give her the freedom to set the ground rules.

A threesome will sound a lot more interesting to your reluctant gf if she’s given some degree of control over the situation. She should pick the other gal, set boundaries etc.

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2. Don’t portray the threesome as a gift she is supposed to give you.

Your gf doesn’t owe you shit. She can choose to decline to your crazy fantasy. Just like the way a girl’s virginity shouldn’t be a present to the person she first sleeps with, a threesome shouldn’t be viewed as a gift to your bf. It should be something that she wants to do.

3. Reassure her that everything will be okay

Let me emphasize a few key points. Tell your girl that she is and always will be your number one priority regardless of what happens. Tell her that you don’t want a threesome because you are bored with her, You want it because you have an itch to experiment and take you lungula experiences to the next level….. Tell her that the experience will be wild and fulfilling for both of you.

How to pull off a successful threesome.

1. Choose your partners wisely.

Many people wonder if they should have a threesome with a friend or a stranger. There are benefits and risks to both. Strangers provide less risk for long-term emotional fallout, but higher risk for personal safety. Inviting a friend into a threesome is more emotionally charged, but can feel safer. Plus, if it’s successful, you may be able to repeat the fun over the years.

2. Make sure everyone involved is erotically excited by everyone else.

This is especially important if sexual orientation is an issue. The same-sex contact in any given threesome can range from very little physical contact to full lovemaking and penetration. But the “no-touch between us ; we are just here for the woman/man” threesomes tend to fail miserably.

If you’re so invested in not touching someone, you probably shouldn’t do a threesome together. The success of your threesome depends on your attitudes, so make sure everyone has an open mind and open heart. Discuss all of this ahead of time so expectations are clear and boundaries are firmly established before you dive in.

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3. Always keep things safe.

Safe sex is always essential, but if you’re bringing a new partner into an established relationship, you’ll want to refresh your commitment to safe sex practices. You won’t be able to relax and enjoy yourself if you’re worried about contracting a disease or an unwanted pregnancy.

Make sure all three of you are on the same page about safe sex. And buy extra condoms, you may go through a lot during a successful threesome.

4. Ensure that all participants are involved.

As a general guideline, if you’re going to have a threesome, make sure to include the participation of all three people. Go to great lengths to make sure no one feels “left out.” Don’t focus solely on one individual. Each person should be participating from the start.

5. Go out in public together after.

Now for the truly awkward part: What do you do after the sex has ended? You all need to go out or just hang at home to relieve the intensity. This will be a way of reassuring the other person that you can still be friends even after the threesome. If this is done correctly you will have more threesomes later on.

A threesome is a male fantasy, but be sure to realize that it has to be all about her (by her I’m talking about your gf or Fuckmate or fwb) and it should be done according to her rules and parameters. So whatever your girlfriend/fuckmate or fwb says, you need to respect her wishes. You don’t want to lose something special by wanting something extra.

In a threesome

Allow it to be however it’s going to be, if it doesn’t happen, well and good and remember one thing which is the most important advice I can give you: Make it about her and her pleasure, and it’s amazing how far you can stretch those boundaries.

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Dennis Menez

I'm Dennis but you can call me menez. Get in touch with me on 0725364091

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