Mon. Jan 27th, 2020


The Menez Effect

Reasons Women Dislike Nice Guys

4 min read

Oh, the Joy of waking up to those Good Morning Texts!

“Good Morning Beautiful”

“Wake Up Bitch”

You send her “Good Morning Beautiful” EVERY morning, bring her ice cream, listen to her problems, send her cash, show up at her house to check up on her.

You are showing complete and utter interest in this woman, basically SUCKING HER ASS……..and she curves you, over & over & over & over again.


But Here’s What’s wrong with nice Guys

It’s not your fault guys, your mom raised you right, the type of guy to have the utmost respect for females. The type of guy to cater to his woman, you are for the most part emotionally expressive too, EVERYTHING women THINK they want!

There’s something wrong with these women!

Women must do better, it’s good men out here, but most rather deal with the “BAD” boys. You are busy dealing with fuck niggas who don’t even know your middle name, your birthday, your goals, your wishes, but I bet he knows what that pussy feels like!


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Are you too soft for the bitch? Women love a man that can take control, make decisions, choke her a lil bit. If she has to decide where to eat, where to go clubbing, where to go for your next date, or make ALL the decisions, it’s a TURN OFF.

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Take control, be the alpha male in the relationship. DON’T BE A YES MAN. Do not and I repeat do not agree with everything this woman has to say, take that power back.


Are you a little insecure but you don’t know it? This type of Nice Guy starts off as very caring to women. From time to time you hear him complain about how you aren’t giving him the attention that he deserves. He doesn’t want you to spend too much time with your friends especially if they are guys.

An insecure man really loves to buy his woman gifts because he believes buying gifts somehow compensates for his many flaws, insecurities and lameness. Inscure niggas are VERY NEEDY. They need you around them.


It’s not your fault nice guys, these bitches don’t know what they want. They kinda wanna have their cake and eat it too. They love the fact that the nice guys are there when they need them, but hate the fact that the nice guys are TOO AVAILABLE.

They are lost in the sauce, rather keep you around and still play the field with the fuckboys. They know you’re the ultimate choice but can’t let go of that thrill from the BAD BOY. Temptation is eating them alive, they feel like they’re missing out on SOMETHING


Are you boring her to DEATH, my nigga?KEEP HER ON HER TOES! Females don’t like to feel stagnant in a relationship, they love the thrill of shit! Spontaneous shit. Just surprise her. Start an argument out of nowhere, beat up her ex, kiss her in the hallways, talk shit etc.

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Bitches love shit like that trust me.


Yes ladies, yes, You might not know this, but your subconscious is SCREAMING. It’s screaming HELP ME. So many women are used to things turning sour in relationships, they think that YOU are too good to be true. Why is this man so nice to me?

Some women are so used to being treated like shit they can’t recognize a king when they see one.

They are afraid to take that extra step of taking you serious because of their past relationships, because of the men in their past. So when you do nice things for them they constantly question it…. FOR ME?

Yes, for you bitch.

So to the good guys out there, you should probably self reflect

Know your worth KINGS.

Don’t bend over backwards for a bitch that ain’t bending over for you. Men please be dominant, or at least act like you’re dominant. You have to know when to move around when your efforts are being abused and unappreciated.

Ladies, you sit and wonder why you can’t find love, why you are constantly getting played. Well girl, you MUST pick a different type of man. The type of man that cares, shows you he cares, and tells you he cares. ACTIONS & WORDS.

You can not continue to go after the same type of man and expect different results.

I’m not here to force anyone to date outside of their comfort zone, but here to ENCOURAGE expanding your horizon, try being treated good for once and see how it feels.

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