Reasons Why Men Will Never Ask If You’ve Ever Been Tested For Any STD
In my 20+ years of living I’ve never asked any woman if she’s ever been tested for any STD, let alone if they’ve actually had one. I’m sure most of us guys have never done this.
Why is it that not many men care about asking such questions?
So I sat down and came up with several reasons as to why men will never ask if you’ve ever been tested for any STD.
Here are some of the reasons
1) “We don’t really want to know”
Who wants to hear bad news? Probably not the best conversation to have right before having sex, I know.
If someone you really like (or at least you like them well enough to sleep with them) is infected & they do tell you, that would just kill the mood. But like the old saying goes, “What you don’t know, can’t kill you.”
2) “We assume she’s clean because she made me wait”
Why else would a woman make you wait for sex unless she was clean? People who are already infected don’t do that, do they? Well, just because someone makes you wait for it doesn’t mean that they’re clean.
For all you know they could be waiting for their herpes outbreak to clear up. Besides, it’s never safe to ‘assume’ anything.
3) “We are already protecting ourselves”
If a guy is already wearing a condom, he may think that he’s protecting himself against any disease a woman may have.
This couldn’t be further from the truth. For one, there are always bodily fluids that can be spread from a women’s vagina down to any exposed area on a man’s body.
Not to mention, herpes can be transmitted through skin to skin contact. Sorry guys but condoms don’t protect you from everything.
4) “We don’t really care”
Like for real, we don’t really care. As long as it’s not HIV or AIDS we can handle any STD. All it takes is some pills and syringe shots to be cured.
5) “Wouldn’t you be offended if We ask you?”
Some women would be offended if we asked them whether they had any STD. If a woman is offended by you asking if she’s been tested & to see a copy of those test results you probably shouldn’t be sleeping with her in the first place.
6) “We are just happy to be getting some”
This is the most common reason why we never ask. At the end of the day most men are just trying to get some pussy so the thought of STDs either completely kills the mood or sometimes may not even cross their minds.
The next time you are trying to finesse your way into some pussy, ask her if she’s ever had any STD.
What do you think? Ladies, don’t you think a man should make sure you’re disease-free before trying to sleep with you?
Men, have you ever considered asking for proof that a woman is clean before sleeping with her? And more importantly, will you do it going forward.
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