We’ve heard so much about sponsors : how they dish out cash, ain’t easy to fuck with the rubber on, drama and so much more.
Dr. Menez brings you another menezification edition . Tune in into my menezification classes every week. The lecture is short just 5mins long.
Can You Handle An Older D**k Young girls like older men. Older men like younger girls.
At 18-20 years of age, a girl has fully developed her hoe gene, and will fuck who she wants when she wants to regardless of the law. All R-Kelly jokes aside, for a man to purposely seduce a teenage chick is disgustingly perverted.
These little freaks who have more body than women twice their age know they’re sexy and love to hunt older men for sport. Just like a sneaky teenager can find a way to buy beer, these little girls can find a way to get a grown man. But what about the girls who want more than sex from older men?
The girls who are 19, 20, 21 and looking for that old guy to make her his princess, those are the girls that I worry about because they get fucked over on a regular basis. I’ve received several texts from girls who are under 22 and were having serious problems with their boyfriends who are in their late 20’s to early 30’s.
It had nothing to do with sex, it was all the emotional things that you go through when dealing with older niggas that they had no idea about. Here’s my advice to younger women looking to bag an older dude because they think he’s more mature, established, and through with playing game…
OLDER MEN ARE DAMAGED
If you meet a guy who’s six years older than you and single, you didn’t hit the jackpot baby girl, more than likely you’ve ran into a nigga with issues that women his age don’t want to deal with. But can you handle the history of drama that comes along with it?
CLASSIFICATION OF OLDER GUYS
The Waited Too Long Guy:
Men don’t panic as we get older, because we look at it like this, “30 birthday coming up, it’s all good because the girl I’m going to marry is still in school . As long as they keep birthing females, a man will have a shot at settling down with something younger and prettier than the girl he just broke up with. Because of this mentality, men don’t have a ticking time clock to settle down. If they want fatherhood fast, most guys will run up in a cute ratchet and pop out a kid in hopes of creating a Lebron James, but fatherhood doesn’t equal settling down.
Waited Too Long Guy had a few women who were probably “the one” but he was indecisive or he wasn’t done having fun, so he let her walk out of his life. Now he’s stuck in the matrix of dating.
Women should stay away from this guy at all costs. He’s going to talk the talk, and tell you that he’s been waiting since 2005 for a girl like you, but it’s game. You’re new to him, you’re feisty, pretty, and you fuck like only a girl raised on Nicki minaj music can. Of course he’s going to be smitten with you. But once he wears your coochie out and gets tired of your sassiness and obsession with texting, he’s going to move on to the next PYT.
The Let’s Start A New Family Guy:
This is the guy who has an ex wife or long time girlfriend. He has children, but he’s not happy at home. This guy is more attractive than Waited Too Long Guy because he’s demonstrated that he can settle down and be a father. The thing about this guy is that his past will always be his future.
He’s been with this woman since he was in college, now he wants to leave her for you. Do you think she’s going to disappear? Who’s he going to live with? Are you going to sleep on their couch until the divorce is final? Can he move into your mother’s house ? This guy will talk the shit out of you and promise to be there, but the same reason he left his old family is the same reason he’ll leave you—boredom.
When people have kids the romance changes, the sex changes, everything changes. You either adapt and still do your thing, or you give into the stress and start to hate the other person.
Clearly The Let’s Start A New Family Guy didn’t have the patience. He could be a good guy to you, but I suggest learning everything you can about his old family and the reason it didn’t work out.
Older women are harder to talk to… False. The real problem is that older women ask questions. They want to know where you work, where you went to school, what your plans in life are, how each one of your past relationships ended, and how you treat your mother.
The sign of a mature woman is the ability to call you out on your bullshit. A little girl will allow a man to give half answers, contradict himself, and stay mysterious because she doesn’t want to rock the boat. A mature woman can’t afford to be so naïve, so she questions and challenges. Some men don’t like to open up, they’re looking for something light, fluffy, innocent, and fun.
These men openly seek out young girls at the usual places. They’re the losers who hangout outside campus with their cars, always around where students frequent. He’s comfortable hunting babies because she won’t ask about his fucked up life, being unemployed, the illegitimate kids, or any other deal breaker that a mature woman would sniff out during a first date.
He gets to relive his golden age by smashing a gang of baby bitches who call him daddy and think that he’s cool. Don’t settle for being his fountain of youth, you can do so much better.
The Man Child:
He probably still lives with mom, or maybe he’s living with his baby mama, same shit. He can’t hold down a job and still parties like he’s in college. 30 years old and his 20-year-old girlfriend has more sense than he does. This is the Peter Pan nigga who never grew up. He’s spoiled, whinny, and always needs. He’s supposed to be the older mature man who lays pipe good and shows you the world, but he’d rather play video games and fuck you with a soft dick .
The appeal of the man child is that he’s the most accessible of all older men, his immaturity attracts younger women because he speaks their language.
At first you’ll think he’s fun and care free. He’ll take you out at first and show you a good time. Unlike guys your own age he shares his feelings. He tells you he loves you and expresses how you make him feel inside without a need to act tough. During the courting period the man child seems perfect. Give it a few months and his bullshit will wear thin.
You’re a young woman. Every day you’re growing, you’re getting smarter, you’re becoming more ambitious, you need someone to grow with you.
It’s not going to be the Man Child, his growth is stunted, and it’s not due to coffee it’s because every time a woman has called him out on his bullshit and told him to man up he’s run home to mommy.
The reason he’s dating someone your age is due to the fact that mature women aren’t into pacifying his bitch ass. By the time you realize that he’s damaged goods, it’s going to be too late because the Man Child’s grown on you and you’re in love. Younger women end up with older men all the time, once you hit a certain age it does become just a number.
As nasty as it sounds there will be a girl born in 2001 who ends up marrying a guy born in 1981, but not every man is George Clooney , know the warning signs when you’re dealing with these older cats and never think age = maturity .
20 year old girls who sleep with older men because of cars, celebrity, or status are a product of low self esteem mixed with miseducation. Some of those girls will come to their senses and learn that fucking bigger dicks doesn’t make you a bigger girl, others will grow into career hoes.
The key is realizing that once you turn 20, you can still date 20 year olds. You don’t have to date older.
“Boys my age act young ” they’re supposed to, maybe you should ask yourself why you’re racing to be grown instead of enjoying your youth. Stop obsessing over maturity and allow yourself to grow into a relationship with someone on your level.
Why settle for someone who is old and has baggage because you’ve had bad experiences with guys around your age? A smart woman can train a young nigga to behave the way she wants, but no matter how hard she tries she can’t teach an old nigga new tricks.
However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him. You might get picked by him everyday but he is being mercilessly mocked by all of the women in his life for dating a 18 year old .
Among the biggest reasons that he likes you is because you’re young. There’s probably a reason no woman his age wants to date him. Don’t stick around long enough to find out why.
Defending your relationship will frequently ruin your friendships. You’ll end up alienating the friends who are dropping truth-bombs such as the one above. Next thing you know, he’s your closest friend as well as your boyfriend — which creates a co-dependent dynamic that’s bad for any relationship .
Whether or not you tell your parents about him or not, it’s a lose-lose. If not, the sneaking around, lies and secrets will strain your relationship. And if you tell them, you’ll deal with all-out fights.
This is probably a pattern for him. No matter how special he insists you are, the chances are that he’s been dating younger girls for years. Yes, he might have sex with you and then bail. I know hearing that is like sticking a fork in your chest and ripping your heart out. It’s true, though.
Sleeping with him might be a bigger emotional deal for you than you think. Maybe you’re sure that you won’t be dramatic about it, like “other girls.” But that shit tends to sneak up on you. And it doesn’t mean you’re weak or naïve— it just means that you value yourself. Which is mature, by the way .
If he’s married, he’s not going to leave his wife for you. Which is one of those things where, yeah, it could happen, it has happened, but asteroids also hit the Earth occasionally and we all still leave our houses without wearing full-body protective .
He might be running from a bad relationship with a woman his age. If he had a nasty breakup with (or for older men, a nasty divorce from) someone in his demographic, there’s a good shot that’s why he’s with you — someone who can’t hurt him. But he can hurt you. It’s like a Chain of Pain up in here.
It’s probably not going to last. Let me rephrase that: It probably shouldn’t last, because as you get older, you’ll change (which is normal and great so don’t fight it! It’s the emotional version of going from breast buds to boobs!) and want different things.
If he ends it because you’re too young, let him. That means he’s actually a decent guy. And maybe somewhere down the road, things will be different for both of you. But the only way for that to happen is to let it end when it’s supposed to.
Date guys your own age. We maybe immature at times but that’s how we supposed to be. We living as our age dictates .