It’s a new month, i got good vibes going on so let’s start this month with a bang.🔥🔥
2nd article this month is for the ladies.
On this day 5yrs ago, menez met the baddest bitch walking on this planet – mystic Idah
She gave rise to my liking for crazy, wild and super fun girls. She held her own in everything she did. She led never followed. She was impressive in every single aspect.
My close highschool bros can’t forget her name… Her mails were interesting to read. Today’s blog is for her and all the other ladies walking on this beautiful 🌍 .
This one’s for the ladies. Fellas, you can hang around if you want to, but you gotta stand over there in the corner and be real quiet. Don’t worry, I’m not gonna hit on your girlfriends and wives, but I got a few things to tell them.
Okay girls, now it’s just you and me. You’re all looking very pretty today, maybe we can go grab a drink sometime—no, shit. I promised I wouldn’t do that. Sorry. Habit.
Anyway, the reason I pulled you all aside…is to show you my penis. Wait! Don’t leave, I was just kidding. Okay, I think I got it all out of my system now. Seriously, though, I want to let you in on a little secret—
My goal is to create Queens not Hannah Bakers, those women that embrace their greatness without a need for outside validation, withstand the trails of life, and turn even the most negative thoughts into positive reactions.
Imagine a world where women were so no nonsense and up on game that had men changing their hunting habits and respecting the women they chased. Their old tactics ain’t working on this women. This world would be so great for the women and so tough for us men.
Well, sit back and let Uncle Menez tell you some few things. By few i mean like a 1000 words. Random advice from Dr. Menez.
Be a Realist not a Romantic
Forget the Cinderella effect. You want to meet one man. Love that one man. Make love to that one man. Marry that one man. Have children of your own and live happily ever after—with that one man . That’s not going to happen. That only happens in movies.
Your first love won’t be your last love, and that’s a great thing because you need to discover through trial and error what makes you happy not how to compromise enough to make a man happy. Experience different personalities, experience different type of guys.
It’s not your job to fix a man, to wait for him to act right, or to convince him that you’re special. He either comes to you with his shit together or he gets cut from your life.
Lead Never Follow
True friendship is priceless, but it’s also rare.Observe any girl before you give her the label of friend. Most of these birds aren’t worthy to know your goals let alone your secrets. Make moves in silent, and only let those that earned your trust and loyalty into your circle.
Those women that are truly down for you will show it daily, not just when they need a favor. Be nice to those that are nice to you.
The same way you don’t chase after boys, you must never allow yourself to need any female’s friendship to the point where you allow her to use or manipulate you.
The world is filled with zombies trying to keep up with what some other idiot defines as cool. Be an individual and move to the beat of your own drum. One unique woman that isn’t afraid to be different is worth a million basic bitches looking for attention and acceptance.
In terms of love, don’t take advice from any man or woman that doesn’t have their own success story to tell you. You can’t learn shit about becoming rich from a nigga that is broke and you can’t learn anything about love from someone that’s single with a history of bad choices.
Mistakes are part of life, you fuck up to move forward smarter and wiser. You get played, so you can learn to be three steps ahead in the future. Trauma happens, you learn to heal, not hold it in. These are simple lessons, but some people are so sensitive that they can’t let go of that hurt and see the silver lining. Become better, not bitter!
There will be co-workers, classmates, maybe even a bff that tries to make her love life the rule, not the exception. She can’t get proper dates so she will preach that men these days don’t date, of course that’s a lie, go out to any hotel on a given night and you’ll see couples. They will try to tell you that men only want sex, another lie because wedding venues are still making record profits.
Not all birds flock together, so despite what any girl preaches to you in the name of friendship, always judge for yourself and remain an independent thinker.
Self Respect Is Everything
Respect isn’t given, it’s earned, so when you allow yourself to be talked down, to be mindfucked with reverse psychology, or to be devalued, the game is over. A woman that’s happy being single, not just saying it, has a different energy than the ones that have no options and jump at lame “ when can I see you ” texts.
I don’t care what other women are doing, or how popular they are, never feel a need to compete with hoes! Those girls that constantly post pictures using the same “ oh look it’s my ass poked out to the side ” pose are looking for a certain type of attention. The love they’re chasing isn’t positive, they’re simply trying to trap a dick the only way they understand how– by cheapening their brand.
Don’t Fear Men, Expose Them
“Never trust a man cus they all hungry…”
A man can give you the most mind-blowing, nasty, toe curling sex and not even like you. A man can spend thousands of cash courting you and just be in it for the chase, not your heart.
Inside every decent man is still a man that thinks with his dick, and that’s what frustrates so many women that love men and hate them at the same time.They don’t understand how they always end up with a man that doesn’t act right for her but as soon as they break up, he acts right for the next woman.
Life must be experienced, not taught. But what will separate your mind from those girls that refuse to date, that bury themselves in school or work to avoid those feelings, is that you will embrace the challenge of seeing through the male agenda.
Every male has an agenda. He either wants to be with you, fuck you, or exploit you.
Never be naïve to the wants of men, understand them, and use their own minds to your advantage. Sex does not equate to love. A title can be just bait to keep you around. A good man will still reject you. A former fuck boy can reform and treat you better than any woman he’s ever known.
All relationships require a leap of faith and require trail and era; there is no master key man, you will have to go through the process, like it or not!
A man that only wants to fuck you will only do so much before he loses interest—test that.
A man that wants to exploit you will be too good to be true at first but not under scrutiny—test that.
Fuck boys don’t have the energy to keep up proper treatment for longer than a few weeks or months, especially if you aren’t rewarding them with sex and asking all the right questions.
No woman is above being played, because not every man is looking for forever.
Your standards must be so high that you know 90% of the men you talk to won’t make it because they won’t be able to impress someone with your pedigree.
Talking to any man just because he’s cute, or bending over backwards just because he has money is what basic women do. If a man truly wants more, he doesn’t tell you, he shows you with consistency!
Never want anyone so bad that you give them a fast pass to your heart without first inspecting what’s inside their closet.
Life will humble everyone at one point or another, but you can’t let it break you.
Win the War Inside Your Head
Many people won’t admit this, but the voice inside of them is filled with confusion. You ask opinions on everything because your own internal compass was never set properly. You overthink everything because you were never taught to trust your gut. You can’t focus on goals, you are easily manipulated, and you always end up choosing wrongly.
Trust your intuition, believe in your choices, and don’t shy away from calculated risks.
If you’re not trying, you’re not living, and if you don’t fail every now and then you don’t progress.
That’s the end of today’s lesson. I hope you learnt something from all these 👆👆👆
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Share this to all your female friends and promote self empowerment.
i hope you all have a great month.