If you love your boyfriend, how much shit are you willing to put up with?
Most women proclaim automatically that they would drop a man in a minute if he did her wrong. “I wish he would blah blah blah ” those types of threats are empty.
Women take “The Title” serious. They change Facebook statuses, they find excuses to call ex- boyfriends so they can rub it in; they have to tell everyone they know because it’s a big deal to find love.
The double edge sword is that once you tell everyone you’re together you have to deal with everyone asking what happened when you break up.
Besides the obvious “but I love him” excuse I think fear of failure is the second reason women stay with their asshole boyfriends longer than they should. Women don’t want to admit that it didn’t work out. I could break up with a girl and not think twice about how it makes me look.
More than likely only four people breathing knew she was my chick anyway. Men don’t spread the word when they give a girl the title, if someone asks you might tell them, but we don’t scream it to the heavens like women do.
Mark broke your heart but you love him, what do you do? Do you keep putting up with him or do you throw in the towel and admit that you didn’t pick the right man .
If you said you’d break up with Mark you’re lying. I know a lot of women. I’ve seen the cockiest bitches humbled by no good niggas. We all have.
Everyone reading this knows some egomaniacal woman who got fucked over and didn’t jump ship. “Oh we working it out , we ain’t going to let that stop us ”
On the flip side maybe Mark is a good dude, he just strayed a little. We are men; we are bound to fuck up. I don’t care if it’s getting caught sending perverted text messages to an ex or sleeping with some random girl, mistakes are made by the best of us. It’s so easy to tell a woman to leave a man, never have I seen a woman tell her girlfriend to stay with a man who’s’ done her dirty.
Hanging in there through thick and thin for a man that’s worth it, that’s what a good woman does. Hanging in there with a man who keeps disrespecting you, that’s what a dumb bitch does.
A Good Woman Knows Her Man :
When you’re with a man you know everything there is to know about his likes, you’re not dense enough to think that you’re the only girl he looks at.
A Good Woman knows that her man is on instagram double tapping those 🔥 asses. She knows he’s lying when he says, “ I just went to the club because the guys wanted to go.”
She doesn’t care about any of that because knowing what tempts him keeps her one step ahead of him. I don’t have a type, I haven’t had a type since I was a teenager, but my ex could take one glance at some girl in the club and tell me I would fuck her before my mind computes that I would do awful things to her if I could.
She knew me. Good Women have a blueprint of their men. If and when he does step out of line he won’t be able to bullshit and lie because she can tell by the situation that it is something he would do.…Know thy man!
A Dumb Bitch Thinks Her Man Is perfect :
Your boyfriend doesn’t like any girl but you. He wouldn’t give another girl his number. He doesn’t have time to cheat. Oh you simple dumb let me fetch your Seeing Eye.
Dumb chiqs are easy to cheat on because even if you get caught with another gal she will protect you. “I’m not making excuses but we did have an argument earlier in the week, so technically… ” He fucked around on you. Face facts, he’s not Perfect. The more you continue to think that he’s better than every man walking the more leverage he has to sling his dick to the world.
A Good Woman Addresses The Problem :
Your boo cheated. What to do now? You don’t fight, you don’t cause a scene, you don’t act out like a child—you deal with it. If you’re not ready to walk away from him, then that means you’re ready to work through it.
He fucked you over and now you have to figure out why he slipped up and how many times he slipped up. A Good Woman doesn’t turn a blind eye to the past fucks either, she lumps them together.
“You fucked that other bitch, now who else did you put your dick in? You need to come clean before I decide if you’re worth my time.” She may stay, she may go, either way she handles her business like a grown ass woman.
A Dumb Bitch Attacks The Other Woman :
Don’t argue on the phone with the other woman, especially one who fucked your man, you look weaker . She fucked your man, calling her a hoe isn’t going to make her cry. She’s not the hoe—your man is the hoe.
A Good Woman Needs More Than An Apology :
I watched my homie kiss ass for over six months when he cheated on his baby . His apology was sincere and they were together for a minute so you would have thought she would have given in after a few weeks, but she was a Good Woman and saying sorry and bringing chocolate doesn’t mean shit. You broke someone’s heart—that’s not repaired overnight.
A Good Woman doesn’t rush back into the fire, she walks away from it, she takes time to cool off and evaluate her next move. The calls will keep coming; he will want to go on dates, and talk on the phone all night. All that shit he used to do when you first got together– all the shit he should have been doing throughout the relationship is back because he doesn’t want to lose you.
A Good Woman isn’t impressed with a month of courting, you have to work to regain her love, and that’s how it’s supposed to be.
A Dumb chiq Is Happy with Make Up Sex :
My friend told this girl that he cheated on her and he later had sex with her the same night. He didn’t get head, but he got the P***y, and that was great for him—but damn was that a dumb bitch move.
No dick is good enough to go from tears to moans in a span of 8 hours. No amount of ass kissing should make us cool after a week. Dumb chiqs have no bite. They bark all year about what you better not do but when you do it, they’re quiet.
A Good Woman Doesn’t Throw Rocks :
Don’t act like your relationship is the greatest story ever told, you motherfuckers will not be on a park bench reading your life story while Emma Stone acts it out. You two are normal people trying to live a normal life together—mistakes will happen on both ends, but you deal with it.
A Good Woman realizes this and doesn’t try and make her situation seem larger than life. When a Good Woman is going through drama, her friends will be there to support. When a Good Woman has to break up with a no good bastard, you don’t laugh behind her back because she never pretended to be in an unsinkable ship.
A Dumb chiq Lives In A Glass House :
It blows my mind how girls love to floss on their own friends. These are your FRIENDS why would you try and brag when they know the real story? But good friends are quiet; they talk amongst themselves and give you enough rope to hang yourself. When your baller boo is revealed to be just another lame ass nigga who played you, who do you run to? You run to those same friends who you tried to style on. Oh now you want to admit that he wasn’t that cute.
We’ve all witnessed the “In Love” instagram girl who turns into the “fuck men” instagram girl. Those girls come off as pathetic. I don’t care if you’re dating the King of England, any relationship can end and any man can be revealed as a piece of shit, save some face–
Ending a relationship because your man cheated or stopped treating you right is a decision only you can make because only you know if he’s worth keeping around. But be smart enough to step back from the situation and assess what kind of man he really is.
“If you lie to yourself long enough, being comfortable starts to feel the same as being happy—but it’s not real.”