Fri. Feb 21st, 2020


The Menez Effect


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Getting the girl of your dreams in your bed? Amazing. Failing to get an erection when you’re ready to go? There’s absolutely nothing worse.

This happens to the best of us. By the time we reach forty almost every man will at one point fail to get hard. It happens to most men at some point in their lives; for some it’s a common occurrence and for others it’s a once in a while deal. There’s nothing worse than your dick being the only thing stopping you from having sex.

Ladies, you may have to sit down to pee and bleed every month, but you really do have it easy. When it comes to sex, you can always perform. Even if you aren’t aroused or feeling desire for your partner, you can still have fuck. You have the ability to fake it, all of it— your desire and your orgasms, but when we men have sex, we have to show up completely, every single time.

Not getting hard is really an embarrassment. The girl is left disappointed and if she ain’t your gf, trust me she will think of you as a lesser man. Well i googled some stuffs and here are some reasons why some men occasionally don’t get hard.

This blog is for the men but you ladies can hang around. You may learn a thing or two.


1. You can’t get hard because you drank too much alcohol

You’ve probably been in this situation: You’ve had one too many drinks, take her back to your place, and realize you just can’t get hard. Alcohol is one of the most unfortunate curses to fall on mankind.

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Alcohol is a depressant on your central nervous system. It decreases blood flow to your dick, which can prevent you from getting hard.
So while that drink might relax you enough to get her into bed —and it’s true, some guys might perform better with a tiny bit of booze in their system —it might prevent you from getting the job done if you go overboard and get wasted.

2. Performance anxiety.

The idea of fucking a new girl is exciting. In your mind you can’t wait to fuck her. But, the challenge with fucking a new girl is that you want to impress her with your dick skills. If you fuck her good she will definitely come back for more. Now anxiety comes at the performing part, your dick may not get hard. Even if she sucks you like a pornstar you just can’t get hard. The only way to combat performance anxiety is to relax and let it happen. Don’t overthink if you will give her the big O. Once you get hard the rest will follow.

3. You can’t get hard because you recently masturbated/ wanked.

If you just wanked, you might have to wait before you can hop into bed with your partner. It might have something to do with a spike in the hormone prolactin after you cum. This hormone has been linked to difficulties maintaining an erection or even ejaculating.

Scientists aren’t sure why it takes some men longer to get hard, but it’s often shorter for younger men.
It’s like running a marathon, your body will need to relax and rejuvenate before your run again explains. The average man has a 30-minute refractory period(period to get hard again) but some guys may need as little as 10 minutes or up to an hour or two to reload.

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4. Drugs.

Did you know weed can cause you to not get hard. To some people weed makes them horny. To others it reduces both the desire and drive to have sex. Ecstasy reacts differently with someone . It can either make you last really long or make you fail to get hard. Miraa has also been said to cause some effects in someone’s sex game. But there is a trick to overcome this. Just take some shots of legend and you’ll be good to go.

The answer for drugs is simply not to use them if you plan on having sex, or at least wait until you sober up before trying.

5. Stress

Dudes, too much stress ain’t good for you. When you are too stressed out sex will be the last thing on your mind.

Stress exhausts you mentally and physically. When you’re stressed out, your body is trying to mobilize all of your energy to your main functional organs, so something like your dick is going to be the last thing on this list.

What’s more, feeling stressed can spike your cortisol levels. That can be a problem, since the stress – hormone can actually block the effects of testosterone, That can kill your libido and cause problems with your erections.

6. Too much cigarette smoking and drinking too much coffee.

If you’re an avid cigarette smoker or are addicted to your coffee, this might be the reason you can’t get hard. Caffeine and nicotine can severely impact your erections, making it difficult to maintain hardness because your nervous systems are getting caught up in the effects.

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So what should you do? Simple. Try to cut back on both. Avoid drinking coffee before sex, and try to stave off that cigarette craving until after you’ve finished in the bedroom. After all, there’s nothing less sexy than a limp dick.

All of these reasons can be solved. It ain’t the end of world. Ladies, if a man at one point or another wasn’t able to get hard just be patient. I know it’s frustrating but it’s more frustrating to him. Be patient and don’t go to your friends talking about his issue.


Reduce your drinking, reduce your smoking, don’t get too stressed and Don’t wank before you fuck. Moderate your lifestyle.

Peace out.



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