A Woman’s Guide To Not Catching Feelings For Her Fuckmate
Sometimes getting a fuckmate is a good thing.
1. You are with him to get laid.
First things first, you’re with this person to get laid, not to get emotionally involved with.
You have to go into this with the mindset that you want nothing to do with this person other than sex.
Don’t spend too much time together. You shouldn’t be hooking up every day or even every other day. Try seeing the person you’re hooking up with maybe 2-3 times a week.
If you’re constantly hanging out, feelings are hard not to develop. That being said, don’t text the person or wait for a call from them. You’ve GOT to make yourself less available.
Distract yourself and stay busy, maybe even get a second fuckmate (But please! If you’re going to have multiple sex partners (even if its just one), please please please get tested, use protection, and stay safe)
2. Avoid getting attached.
Secondly, if you’re biologically ‘female’ (meaning you have a vagina) keep in mind that the chances of getting attached increases every time you have sex with him.
During sex, the female brain releases a hormone called oxytocin. Sometimes known as the attachment hormone.
Oxytocin can induce feelings of love and closeness, so even if you had no romantic interest in your hook-up, your body might trick you into thinking that you do.
If you start feeling something romantic for this fuckmate, the only thing you can really do is avoid talking to them/talking about them for a couple of days, and don’t even DARE stalk their social media accounts.
3. Keep Expectations Low
Lastly, keep your expectations low. The person you’re fucking is not yours and you are not theirs. Don’t get pissed when your fuckmate forgets your birthday or how much you love ice cream.
They owe you nothing but good sex, just like how you owe them nothing but the same.
This is about having fun and shamelessly enjoying yourself, don’t make it complicated by getting feelings involved. Easier said than done, I know.
But if you can’t casually hook up without feelings developing, maybe having a fuckmate isn’t for you, and that’s okay. It isn’t for everyone.
I hope y’all got a kick out of this and learnt a thing or two! Remember, never doubt the power of the pussy. Know your worth.
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