10 Things Women Want In Bed
It’s so interesting how many women blame men when the sex is bad, but never think that perhaps it’s them who sucked.
But as a man, there’s nothing you can do about that because if you don’t please her, another man will. You just have to perform in bed.
In order to perform though, you have to know what these ladies want, especially these uptown ladies.
Here’s your guide to banging her wheels off.
1. Do more rounds and last longer
All women want a men who can give it to them until they can’t take it anymore. They want to ‘tap out’. So train yourself to last longer. No woman likes it when you cum too fast. Also do more rounds.
If you are spending an entire night with a woman, it’s always advisable to go at minimum of three rounds.
2. They want you to be aggressive and wild
Don’t ever believe anyone who tells you that women like ‘making love’. Women like being fucked hard. A woman can only enjoy lovemaking if she’s deeply in love with you or if you do it to her at a five star hotel room in Paris.
Otherwise bang her hard. Wild sex always wins. Leave her pussy sore and she’ll keep coming back for more.
Of course, there are delicate women out there who want to “make love” every time – sweet, gentle, rocking love with lots of eye contact and loving kisses because they read too many ‘50 bob’ novels.
Such women are not the majority. The majority like to be pounded. The majority like to have their hair pulled. The majority like a good, solid jackhammering.
The majority want you to hold down their arms, or grab their hips, or push their legs above their heads, and fuck harder. No matter how innocent a girl looks, she privately wishes for rough sex. So do it.
3. They want to be licked down there
Women want a whole lot more of the mouth in the south. Many women are keen on performing for their men as well but if a girl isn’t willing to suck you, you are not obligated to go down on her. It should be a two way street –always.
And when you do eat a woman out, the only comment you should make about her pussy is how nice and yummy it is.
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4. ‘Command her ’ ‘don’t ask her’
Another big mistake men make is asking for permission in bed. “Can I turn you over?”, “Can I enter now” , “Are you ready for another round?”. That’s stupidity.
Don’t ask her for anything. Simply grab her waist, turn her over and do her from the back. Plus, the anticipation of not knowing what’s going to happen next is hot for her.
5. Focus on her entire body
It may sound like less of a fantasy and more of a sex tip, but a lot of women want their men to focus on their entire bodies. Find her sweet spots. Arouse all the sensations that come from somewhere other than her pussy.
Before even sex begins, kissing can be your cavalry. Kissing is the first step in playful seduction. It works and it’s fun for the women.
Brush your lips against the back of her neck, trail along her collarbone. Kiss her anywhere you want.
Also, give her some room to play with your lips too. You will be delighted at the interplay of kissing and being kissed..And she will too.
7. Compliment her body parts
Every girl wants to feel beautiful, in bed. But it’s not just enough to tell a woman she is beautiful. Women are emotionally complicated creatures who want assurance as to why you believe this to be true.
Yes, every lady loves that you think she has a “sexy ass” and “amazing tits,” but while you’re under those sheets, she also likes to be reminded of her beautiful smile and her amazing eyes.
Every lady wants to be beautiful from head to toe, not just boobs to ass. Even if she isn’t beautiful, she wants to know that you at least love something about her. Or else why else would you be sleeping with her?
She wants to feel like the women of your dreams, not just the women of your fantasies. Make her feel good about herself
8. They want it ‘out of bed’
Some women like spontaneous sex. Take the sex out of the bedroom. Fuck in different parts of the house or be bold enough and have outdoor sex. Show her how spontaneous you can get.
9. Use your fingers well
Women love finger stimulation if you do it gently. . Refrain from wiggling your fingers around her pussy like you’re playing candy crush on your smart phone or trying to tickle her. Do not push the clit like it is a doorbell at some house that you need to get inside of.
Start by using all four fingers with firm yet gentle pressure against the outside of her pussy. Do not charge in with a single finger and start jabbing at things.
10. Make some sounds
Some women find men who moan or groan during sex to be sexy. Just the way like it when she moans she will also like when she hears sounds from you. If you can’t produce sex sounds at least talk dirty.
If you’re banging a woman, and she’s crying out and saying your name and moaning, and you can’t even manage a grunt, she’s going to feel like an idiot.
You don’t have to make the sounds she is making, but do SOMETHING.
You don’t have to grunt like a mountain gorilla, but if you are totally mute, she’s going to get worried.
There you have it. 10 Things Women Want in Bed.
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