To suck or not to suck is a question each and every girl will be faced with in her life.
Today I’m going to teach you all the basics. No one will teach you about oral sex, they say you only get good at it by having numerous experience. Well, today I’m teaching you(females) some new skills.
I was having a conversation with one of my female friends and this is what she had to say:
“Most of my sex life, I have wondered why men like blow jobs so much, it seems so yuckish and gross. I can’t suck a niggas dick. You can’t know where he’s been dipping that dick of his .”
I wasn’t really surprised by her remarks. I can count like 10 girls whom i know can’t suck dick.
Here is what a different girl said
I don’t suck D’s ….. I got no time for that. It’s takes too much time, excites little passion for me, leaves the guy enjoying all the action alone and also, some dudes don’t take personal hygiene very seriously. Me siwezi suck dick but lazma anilick pussy.
Kulambwa ni lazima. He has to eat me out. Like groceries. That’s a must for me…. I love it and it gives me pleasure. Also, it’s the greatest stimulant I know. In fact, if you do it right, I might as well cum. So for me, he’s got to go down on me. Either that or nothing…
If I’m not wrong bj and cj should be a give and take. I lick your pussy, you suck my dick but to me it ain’t a must you suck my dick. My end game is to dip my 🍆 into your coochie. Some girls have no problems with sucking a guy off. Here is what some girls said.
I’m the kind of girl who only gives blowjob to the guy I’m really serious about. If I’m not serious with you i ain’t sucking nothing
I’m not bragging but I’m an expert at that! I’m the Oprah Winfrey of giving blowjobs. I’m that good. Haha! I will suck the living soul out of his dick. But i won’t swallow. He can cum all over my body but not in my mouth
The legendary Katt Williams said
“ladies, eat fruits, drink water, suck a dick or two and mind your own business ”
“Ladies if you don’t suck your man’s dick, he knows a girl out there who is ready to suck that dick. If you want a healthy relationship however much dick you sucking, suck twice that amount and see how much your relationship will change”
Anyway if you suck dick or you might one day suck dick here are some things you need to keep in mind.
Men are wild about getting oral sex and there are quite a few reasons for this.
Here are the three biggest reasons why men love blow jobs.
1. It feels really good.
There’s something about being enveloped by the warm wetness of an insistent mouth that really gets our blood boiling. It can’t be compared to having our dick in your pussy.
2. It’s stress-free for us.
Unlike regular sex where we have to be concerned about being hard enough, big enough and lasting long enough, blowjobs don’t carry such pressures. We are literally free to relax and enjoy ourselves knowing that we will cum at the appropriate time — no matter how soon that is.
3. We get to watch you pleasure us, which only makes us hard. It’s like we’re starring in our own little porno film. It’s incredible watching your head bobbing up and down on our dicks.
Now that you have known why we love blowjobs, let me tell you all how to give the perfect blowjob.
For those who suck, don’t suck or would one day trying to suck here are somethings you should know.
Sucking dick and pussy licking is not just an act, it’s a work of art. You need to pay close attention to do it well. Good thing I’m here to educate you ladies on how to give the best mind blowing blowjob. For those old fashioned you can take your little notebooks and take notes. The rest of you, you can just screenshot this shiet.
How to give the perfect blowjob
1. Turn us on mentally.
How do i do this? While you are kissing him or just talking to him or while you’re just physically close to him, put your hand on his crotch. So your hand should be resting on his briefs/boxers or his trousers. To make it smooth, start by first placing your hand on his leg and moving it up from there.
Then just softly start massaging his dick and balls outside of his trousers/briefs. just keep doing what you were doing, running your hands over his manhood. If your dude doesn’t react to this then he got some messed up shiet going on.
2. The kiss trail.
Don’t just stick his dick in your mouth. Start off by kissing his lips then slowly moving downwards. So you can move from his lips to his neck to his chest to his stomach until your reach his groin area. Of course, this works way better if he is naked. Take your time. By the time you arrive at his dick he’s rock hard waiting for you.
3. Kiss the D
Finally you have arrived at your destination. I know that dick looks pretty so give it a kiss. There are so many ways you can kiss his dick. Most chiqs prefer giving numerous pecks on the sides of the dick. Don’t be surprised when you see some liquidish stuff on the tip of his dick. It’s just precum. You can kiss his dick any way you want, but it will be a lot easier when you use your hand to hold it in place while you kiss it.
4. FLICK THE FRENULUM
For many men, the most sensitive spot on their dick is their frenulum. The frenulum is the underside of the tip of their dick (its the neck) , where the glans joins his shaft(the rest of the dick) that part is super sensitive. It’s like our clit. You can flick it up-and-down, side-to-side, in circles or by doing a combination of all three. If you still don’t know where the frenulum is ask your bae. He will show you.
Did you know the head of our dick comes from the same skin as what makes up your clit. So please pay attention to the head just as much as we pay attention to your clit.
5. BLOWING HIM
You’ve teased, kissed, licked now it’s time to suck.
Many women are so anxious at the thought of giving head to their man, that they just get straight to it with little or no build up and with no teasing. It’s like they are focused only on making him cum and getting that sperm out of him. Gently teasing your man and building up the sexual tension, so that he is practically begging you to blow him is vital if you want to take your blow jobs from good to great.
One great way to amp up the sexual tension and have him squirming in delight is to lick him gently, making sure to use lots of saliva and then blow the shiet out of him. It will come natural to you. Think of it as sucking a lollipop or a Popsicle. Ooh, and don’t forget to use your lips. Remember to play with his balls. And please don’t bite his dick. Don’t use your teeth.
If you feeling freaky give him a sloppy blowjob. A sloppy blowjob is whereby you are using excess saliva to blow him. If you feel your jaw is getting tired just take his dick out of your mouth and lick his shaft up and down. If you want him to cum quick just suck the head of the dick. And please don’t swallow more than you can handle. Listen to your body if you can’t deep throat don’t do it. This isn’t a porn film so take it easy.
Before i forget you should discuss boundaries before getting to sucking. If you don’t swallow cum please tell your dude that when he feels he’s about to cum, he should give you a warning. We don’t want him cumming in your mouth then you spit it out. Btw spitting cum is a sign of disrespect.
If dude cums in your mouth and you take the time and the mouth muscles to spit it out, you’re still going to taste it in all its salty glory. Spitting is not the solution.
You may ask why should you swallow cum. First of all?
Did you know cum is is an anti-depressant.
I would really love to get into the details about cum but i don’t have the time. So i will give you this two links where you will read all the benefits of a guy cumming in your mouth or pussy
If you want to really enjoy giving head follow these two hacks.
Before sucking his dick suck on some strepsils, it will give you a cooling effect in your mouth. You can also drink cold water then suck his dick til your mouth gets back to normal temperature.
If anyone questions your bj skills tell them sexologist menez taught you these.
Lastly, this goes to the men and women. You are what you eat. If you eat too much salty food your pussy or cum will taste salty. Some hours before getting your pussy licked or dicked sucked eat some pineapple. It will make your cum taste sweeter and pussy taste sweeter. So eat lots of fruits and avoid too much spicy dishes.
I think I’ve talked about everything, if you feel I’ve left out anything holla at me.